EP 34: Feed Drop - The Dark Feminine- Beyond the Illusion

Feed Drop - The Dark Feminine- Beyond the Illusion


In this episode - I share a love note about the Summer - and how that will affect the podcast episodes for  the next couple of months. 

Don’t freak out, Mama Unicorn just needs a little space to breathe and think. 

This episode is a feed drop from Beyond the Illusion podcast! 


This is an episode that is near and dear to my heart, and might just be my favorite interview of all time….host Tim Howe and Tianna Roser invited me onto their show back in December of 2022 to chat about the Dark Feminine…particularly my home girls, the dark goddesses themselves Lilith and Hekate. 


The Dark goddesses, Hekate and Lilith invite us into our full authenticity, reclaiming the parts of us labeled “too much” too driven, too pushy, too fierce or “too bold”...they have us speaking up for ourselves in equity. 


They want us to be seen and considered and they do not prescribe to people pleasing or cultural norms of misogyny or patriarchy. These goddesses offer us the full expression of our souls, with the integration of rage and anger, that transmute and drive us to actually change, protest, and say no to anything and everything that isn’t in integrity. 


I hope you love this episode as much as I did. 


And make sure to pop over for other episodes of Beyond the Illusion. 

Many people equate darkness with evil and shun it. 

Yet in our world of duality, this is impossible. You can’t have day without night or yang without yin. To become whole and return to Oneness, you need to integrate both light and shadow. Are you ready to embrace the dark feminine within? 


In this episode I share how to work with the dark goddess and receive her gifts of transformation, magic, sexuality, death and rebirth. 


Highlights in this episode: 

  • Fall and Winter, the underworld seasons, are a perfect time to explore the Dark Feminine. 
  • Dark Feminine energy relates to the dark, the underworld, the moon or the night. 
  • Everyone, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation, can benefit from this work.
  • Dark goddesses such as Hecate and Lilith pull us into our full authenticity, reclaiming the parts of us labeled “too much” or “too bold”. 
  • What led Tandy onto this path? 
  • The Dark Feminine teaches us to become empowered, use our voice, and take up space. 
  • What are some ways that repressed shadow feminine energy shows up in our lives? 
  • The power of saying, “That doesn’t work for me.” 
  • My book recommendation: “For the Love of Men: From Toxic to a More Mindful Masculinity” by Liz Plank What’s the mythology of Lilith?
  • Let’s reclaim shamelessness! 
  • Who is Hecate? 
  • How does Magical Mentoring work? 


Host Tim Howe is the co-creator of,  Beyond the Illusion, as well as an entrepreneur. After working as a software engineer for many years where he developed audio, optics and haptics software, he has moved on to pursue multiple passion projects, some of which include painting his house and mowing the lawn. He has always been interested in unusual and strange phenomena and considers himself to be a consciousness explorer.

He was born and raised in Table Rock Village, Wyoming, which happens to no longer exist. He currently makes his home in Austin, Texas where he is constantly surrounded by his wife, daughter and cat.

Host Tianna Roser is a Certified Clinical Hypnotist, Reiki Master Teacher and traveler of the inner and outer worlds. Check out Tianna’s new book on Amazon, “Awakening Transformation: A Beginner’s Guide to Becoming Your Higher Self.” 

For more on hypnosis, Reiki, spiritual coaching, or past life regression, visit www.awakeningtransformation.com

Tandy Gutierrez, (that’s me) is the founder & creator of Unicorn Wellness Studio and Magical Mentoring. She is a master pilates instructor (20+ yr), NSCA CPT, tarot reader, intuitive-psychic, and author, thriving in an autoimmune body (Celiac, thyroidectomy, IBS) with 20+ years of experience in the fitness & wellness industry. She helps people heal their core wounds and live a life by design, rather than a life by default through practical and magical self care rituals. 


Connect with Beyond the Illusion:

Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beyond-the-illusion/id1455144055

Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4ryX5DSiWWM8DxaA64BP24

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beyond_the_illusion_podcast/
Website: https://www.beyondtheillusionpodcast.com/


Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Black Moon Lilith with Adama Sesay of Lilith Astrology

Dark Moon Lilith with Jeff Hinshaw of Cosmic Cousins


Connect with me: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tandy_gutierrez
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unicornwellnessstudio
Website: https://www.unicornwellnessstudio.com/ 

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